(pun ) i’m a sucker for the universe giggles!
i’m not much of an advice giver, but the only advice i would give people is~
find out who you are & be that (some are ever evolving), & be magical.
second piece of advice i would give is, either love or let your spirit die.
third piece of advice i would give is, do everything with pure intention. be innocent & wise, every person has an inner child.
I am spring, I am power, I am goddess!
“To me, being feminine means returning to the garden beneath your heart-sun. It’s drawing energy from the space two inches below and behind your navel, the seat of your soul and intuition.
It means shifting your priorities to making the moments of your life nurturing and fulfilling for you. It means giving real value and importance to your needs for creativity, emotional intimacy, play, and sensual experiences. When you are connected to your feminine essence you’ll choose cooperation, kindness, and compassion over competition, dominance, and aggressiveness (though you can shape shift to be these when necessary). You’ll give your need for rest, inner beauty, and soothing environments a high priority in your life. You’ll recognize the invaluable worth of the feminine and be unapologetic in embracing it. Your life goal will be: to enjoy living, giving and receiving love.”Cynthia Occelli
what if i shine like child
WHAT IF i am the creative type, and express myself for myself, and for the unity consciousness to resonate or not and to connect with kindred spirits?
WHAT IF i know there is NOTHING wrong with me, i am perfect just as nature and everyone else is, though i continue to evolve and respect others who do the same?
WHAT IF people don’t resonate with my own self awareness, self loveliness and self acceptance, because they don’t have their own self awareness and self love?
WHAT IF I am disliked, for not disliking myself?
WHAT IF i live my soul’s truth and ever evolving spirit path and other’s think i’m living a lie, because they themselves haven’t awoken to their own soul’s truth or understand my truth/spirit ? isn’t it better to focus on your own truth and soul’s awakening rather than someone else’s?
WHAT IF I have a third sight and high spirit, and no
one believes me?
WHAT IF i live differently than others, i live in a natural timeline with the cyclical rhythms of nature, I have different values and views than some people, and I swim far far against the crowd peacefully, and others try to get me to swim in their direction?
WHAT IF I feel there is something to be learned from everyone in every direction, and other people have such a narroww dogmatic view?
WHAT IF my deep soul searching and curious mind are misunderstood as something negative?
WHAT IF i mind my own and share light and love, and others mind my business and take from me?
WHAT IF i am empowered and other people are disempowered and try to put me in the middle of disempowering! situations?
WHAT IF i stand strong in my truth, and people want me to submit to theirs?
WHAT IF i create my own reality and destiny and don’t let ANYONE hold MY cosmic paintbrush, and that upsets controlling people, because they want me to live their way? isn’t it better to hold your own cosmic paintbrush and do your thing?
WHAT IF i’m really open minded and innocently eccentric, and people just don’t understand me?
WHAT IF i live and speak my truth mindfully, expressing my perceptions, and expressing what i’m for way more than what i’m against, and people don’t agree with my perspectives or expressions, and bash me? isn’t it better to agree to disagree peacefully, and live and let live?
WHAT IF i am a builder of higher consciousness, and others want to destroy? is it not better to build than destroy?
WHAT IF i live in high consciousness, and vibrate on a high frequency and people want to bring me down to their level of perspective reality that does not resonate with my own? why not be in awe of me, and be inspired instead?
WHAT IF i am really happy most of the time around really miserable people?
WHAT IF i live as close to my idealistic vision as possible within myself and in my life and people just don’t get the art of evolving?
WHAT IF i embrace my inner knowing, intelligence, talents, creativity and gifts, and that is unacceptable to some people because they envy me and have not embraced their own inner gifts?
WHAT IF i am sensual, and in tune with my sacred sexual nature and my divine feminine essence, and people don’t like that because they are stifled in their own sexuality, are insecure, or feel inferior to me? WHAT IF patriarchy distorts and manipulates my sexuality, because of an inferiority complex of the divine feminine?
WHAT IF i come from a loving and supportive family, live financially frugal yet comfortable and am able to pursue my dreams, and other’s are jealous of that, because they lack what i have? does that give anyone ANY right to be cruel to me? i think not. i think kindness matters no matter what someone comes from and lives like.
WHAT IF i have simple yet nice material things, and some people are jealous of what i have?
WHAT IF people try to bring me down because i shine light? WHAT IF i shine my light, so other people can do the same for themselves, yet they think just the opposite? oh, they may think it comes from an unhealthy ego, think again, I SHINE LIKE CHILD.
WHAT IF i give unconditional love to people, and they think i am insincere?
WHAT IF i am so kind, complimentary, polite, friendly, sweet, charming and people think i am being insincere? or that i’m flirting with them, when i am just being polite, as i am with everyone? i am not! attracted to everyone i compliment!
WHAT IF i hide from life sometimes to breathe inward and evolve and heal from other people’s own soul destroying feelings projected upon me, envy, cruelty and their own lack? isn’t it just better to focus on your own abundance and lack in self and life?
WHAT IF i shine light, and people get upset, and think i am stealing their light?
WHAT IF i have been a reactor sometimes in the past and threw the projected dark energy back in some people’s direction instead of simply unaccepting it ? or being the light in the darkness?
WHAT IF i have no spiritual/mental/emotional/physical insecurities, but i have had to protect myself a lot of the time from other people’s insecurities?
WHAT IF embracing myself fully as IAM, upsets people?
WHAT IF i don’t care anymore and just be the light and love i know i am no matter what.
WHAT IF in doing so i will succeed in everything i do!
in the article above, i believe, at the most instinctual & primal philosophical level, Bruce Lee expresses, the nurture of things, the nurture of nature. this is why i feel Bruce Lee was way ahead of his time, because he was applying ancient wisdom to modern life philosophy. the focus on this primal philosophical belief is the art of nurture of the nature.
at a molecular & conscious level, we become our environment, we become what we eat, we become what we do or practice, we become what we feel, we become what we think, we become what we believe. we are always “becoming” or “evolving” & this is the simple art of “being”, just like nature. nature & nurture are intrinsically intertwined like a yin yang, there is not one without the other.
Bruce Lee was a master of this very knowledge. when he expresses “be like water” he is implying to become a shapeshifter to the nature. the art of adaptation, just as found in the ecosystems of the earth. this is a philosophical explanation of the art of consciousness & conscious creating. the more conscious one becomes, the more creating through the nurture of nature one practices in oneself. everything begins from within, with the individual of consciousness creating.
there is no other element like water. water is magic. water creates & destroys. water is still, it flows, it freezes, it steams & it evaporates. what other element has this natural magic? water holds consciousness, our bodies are made of 60% water.
water is a pure assertive element. it is reactionary to its environment, it is the most integrated & fragmented element depending upon surroundings, thus water is the most responsive element found in nature.
water in its essence embodies purity. it is the most fluid element. water is a shape shifting element depending on its nurture.
if our bodies consist of 60% water, which contains consciousness, the nature of our molecules, cells, tissues, organs, internal systems, change & adapt according to our environment, what we put into our bodies, what we feel, think, & believe which alters our bodies & behavior patterns. everything affects us on a molecular level, & some of us are very in tune with this, the more conscious one becomes, the more hyper sensitive to this knowledge one is.
the most important knowledge to higher consciousness is awakeness, carefulness, mindfulness & nurturing the nature. protecting the divinity within.
there is a difference between a disempowered infp/j & an empowered infp/j.
the disempowered infp/j, thinks with emotions & intensely subjective, needs to process emotions, before having proper expressions, thus a clear conduit for intellectual expressions. we are emotional beings. we feel everything with our emotions first, we are highly sensory, sensitive, have fragile emotions, fragile egos, may struggle with victim consciousness, (blame everyone else for our naivete), something i have done, & deeply apologize for, yet do not apologize for standing up for myself or asserting my boundaries . our expectations may be too high with ourselves & others, we lack compassion sometimes, yet practice radical compassion, we are idealists, both infp & infj are idealists in different ways. infp’s are hopeless romantics, & may become bitter, if our ideals aren’t met within ourselves or others. infj’s are hopeless harmonizers, & may become inharmonious in inharmonious situations. this is the dis-empowerment. although we are adaptable & make the best of everything, as we see the best in everything, if dis-empowered we can become deluded with our idealistic visions & potential of everything & everyone. we are potential seekers, we see potential in everyone & everything, this is apart of our idealistic perfectionism. some of us may struggle with perfectionism more than others. because of our ability to see potential in everyone, we are super tolerant, we are taken advantage of more than any other mbti personality type, this may make us intolerant in future time. there is an ingrained naivete in us, that we must overcome through empowering ourselves. we may unconsciously push people away because of everything i have just written above. we get to the soul of things, view life naturally from a higher consciousness, we feel endlessly trapped by unhealthy ego consciousness of others, perhaps this is what causes our narcissistic tendencies. we dislike when people try to figure us out, because we are deep, mysterious, complex, paradoxical, & intensely self aware, & we appreciate people who figure themselves out. we are individuals & expect others to be individualized in themselves, for themselves. that’s why we have a difficult time with people who chew on us, project, nag, criticize from an ego consciousness, rush our process, try to shape us into something we are not to fit their egoic perceptions. if dis-empowered we may mock, mime, or mirror the behaviour of others, we are natural actors & psychologists. we truly value uniqueness, & think everyone is extraordinarily unique, we see the potential of people’s uniqueness, we often know other self unaware people, better than they know themselves & their unique puzzle piece of individuality that has nothing to do with filling our egoic version of them, but merely for themselves, here we are a sage in this way. this is frustrating, because we wish everyone was as self aware as us.
we are graceful & fierce at the same time, truly a walking paradox in all ways. all this is because we wish for harmony & respect in the world, & our deepest understanding is that if people become self aware, & raise their own consciousness, individualize through each of their chakra points, deep understanding between people & harmony will prevail, our idealistic relationships with others & world would harmonize in a healthy collective humanity.
empowered infp/j’s learn through maturity, life experiences, & wisdom, how to process our deep emotions & express our emotions intellectually through creativity. we learn to harness our sensitivity instead of letting it entrap us. we have the potential to be extremely articulate in a creative way, we have the potential for a fascinating intellect, not clouded by our heavy emotions, this comes with healing, empowering, integrating everything we have learned, life coping skills, wisdom, & maturity, we no longer exude our immature acting, reactions, & emotional impatience. we take the time to dive deep in ourselves, we are introverted & self focused. we are true individualists & creative expressors, that’s what makes us special. we learn to ground our fantastical imagination & divergent thinking to critical thinking & convergence, this makes us empowered creative realists, instead of living in dream land. all IN functions learn through divergence & convergence, we are left brain/right brain processors. we no longer practice idiot compassion, & have compassion for those who won’t try to wreck us, our compassion is no longer idiotic or radical, just intelligent. we learn to have more patience with everything, mostly ourselves.
the paradox of infp/j
we are left brain/right brain thinkers
we are divergent & convergent thinkers
some of us are bipolar or just moody, yet, this is where our intense creativity comes from
we are emotional magnets, we attract emotions of all kinds, because we know how to express our range of emotions very well in many ways, yet we have to be careful or people will use us to be their emotional projection boards
we are emotional & psychological conduits
we are emotional & intellectual
our intellect comes from our emotions & intuition, more so than knowledge, we prefer wisdom over knowledge, yet we don’t disregard facts
we are in love with the idea of love, yet sometimes don’t know how to love
we are intensely romantic & hide that fact very well
we can be the most emotionally vulnerable of people, & the most guarded people you’ll ever meet, depends on who you are.
we trust deeply or not at all
we love & hate sometimes at the same time
we get confused with how we feel sometimes, because we have one million emotions going through us at once, where we become debilitated in our expression, thus we must process these emotions at our own pace.
we are so open in life, or intensely closed off from the world, we learn to find this balance
if the world is too harsh, we retreat in our own world
we play scenarios in our minds of how things could go, we get sad if things play out different sometimes
life is a play to us, life is a stage for creativity & learning
we plan things & go with the flow
we are pragmatic & super random
we feel to find solutions to problems, then we intellectualize creatively
we are so compassionate & sensitive to others who are deserving (we learn what type of people are subjectively deserving of our time & energy), yet if we don’t receive that same respect, we become the coldest people you’ll never really know.
we are emotional, yet process, intellectualize & transcend our emotions very well, we develop high emotional intelligence with life experiences & wisdom, we’ve had to learn as emotional sensitive beings.
though emotional, we are deeply intellectual
we are on or off, hot or cold, sometimes both, yes, we are kind of eccentric & moody
we use our emotional radar with everything, some of us are prone to alcoholism or any form of numbing so we don’t feel everything so much, the emotions of being highly annoyed, irritated, slighted, abused, roughed up, misunderstood, or violated, or just overwhelmed (those are our main infp/j emotions that make us want to numb.
we may have resting bitch face with a smile
we can feel sad & happy at the same time
we feel the paradoxes of everything & it affects us or inspires us
we learn to be inspired by everything
equilibrium is the most important thing in our lives, because we strive for perfect equilibrium in everything we are & do.
as we evolve we become serene in our equilibrium, because we have sought all of our lives to maintain equilibrium in ourselves & our lives through self awareness. (we’ve had to)
thus we get sad, impatient or, upset at the imbalance of the world.
we are very good with our own emotions, yet not very good with other’s emotions because, we have learned to process & intellectualize our emotions & express in a profound, creative & articulate manner, thus we may lack patience for others who do not do the same for themselves. we have high emotional intelligence if empowered.
the most important things to INFPS
(authenticity) – meaning true, healed, intention & self awareness, high conscious awareness (intention is everything to us, if empowered we see right through intentions) “healthy” ego , assertiveness, (we won’t stand for passive aggressive behavior, we also get traumatized by aggressive behaviour, we are assertive, yet empathetic enough to absorb booshwag if dis-empowered. we can’t stand ugly unhealthy ego consciousness, its just plain ugly to us, as we see through souls.
(boundaries & space), respect our boundaries & give us space, or you’ll be sorry. never make us feel trapped, you’ll be sorry. never think you know us, you just fucking don’t so STFU. our depth is deeper than you could ever imagine, so if you are superficial, please stay in the shallow end. you will never understand our microscopic/periscopic viewpoint, so don’t even try. most people don’t.
(respect). respecting people for their differences & ways is important to us. respect us & our journey, our journey is NOT yours, & not for you to try to understand, judge, manipulate, & disrespect.
(sensitivity) we are sensitive. specifically to what i am writing here about authenticity, boundaries, space, respect, & values. we are sensitive to these five things.
if empowered we don’t take personal offense to things, because we’ve learned how not to absorb other people’s defense mechanisms, projections, issues, absurdities & dissonant subjective realities. we’ve learned that our self aware, pure spirits must be protected from psychopaths, sociopaths, & naropaths. we’ve learned that we are the feeling, thinking, self-awareness, pure consciousness, in a sick world. we take a secondhand offense at the low dense unhealthy ego consciousness that is being distributed throughout the collective unconsciousness like a sick virus, & want no part of it what so ever. we’ve studied it enough to avoid it.
our values literally mean everything to us.
(values) our values are very important to us. if we are not on the same value system, please get gone. this is especially true for infj’s.
infp/j’s usually have healthy self esteem, yet poor self compassion. we are difficult with ourselves because we demand the best unique self aware version of our ever evolving selves through each phase in our lives.
what i have written above may not apply to every infp/j, as we have different upbringings & journeys.
IN functions are
our objective for ourselves is healing, empowering, integrating, self awareness, high consciousness, & expressing this creatively. to find true harmony in ourselves, our dreams, our lives. thus project this creatively in the world, for others to do the same within themselves. we wish for a harmonious, sensitive, intelligent, healed world.
there are so many dynamics to the INFP personality. many INFP’s may interact with the world similarly yet different.
INFP’s have been called: “the mediator” “the true harmonizer” & “the authenticator”
i think all INFP’s are different. it depends on biology, natural energetic imprint, one’s upbringing, conditioning or un-conditioning, societal experiences, personal experiences, our life’s journey. i’m a HSP, INFP/J, introverted ambivert, psychological-emotional empath with humans, animals, & fauna, most naturally. when i am balanced i am finely tuned. when i was naive-empowered in myself(meaning, deep personal search for authentic self subjective truth in objective truths, yet dis-empowered in my interactions with the world, naivette (which i still struggle with sometimes) as many introverts do, this can be misinterpreted or misunderstood by dissonant biologies, frequencies, people of different upbringings, conditionings, life experiences & such. the more balanced one is in their deep inherit equalizing flow of ever evolving, healing, empowering, integrating, inner depth of wholeness, intricately fascinated with self awareness & self wholeness in always being & becoming in equilibrium, with inner earth intelligence & natural circadian rhythms inwardly & outwardly, enhancing one’s own body, mind, soul recognition, into a state of (ee) equilibrium empowerment, wholeness, & harmony, in one within systemic integrations in all that is devolving & evolving in multi-dimensional resonances in a symphony of oneness towards a balanced state of harmony, while self focused internally expanding consciousness for resonance or dissonance for continual devolving & evolving in harmony, can be extremely misunderstood, opposed by, or feared,(with no real reason to fear) by those who are not HSP, INFP INFJ & who do not hold similar experiences on all realms of things. just my personal experience. ~!~
INFP’s however are very discerning, we are like cats in our environments seeking authenticity in ourselves & those around us simultaneously.
oh INFP (4% of the population is infp)
my personal answers to someone’s description about infps. (from the infp fb group i’m apart of)
there is indeed a free flow natural method to our ways, good luck figuring that out, its only for us to understand. giggles! for instance, we infuse reality (which is a mere perception) with the flow of our spirit/mental/emotional/physical creativity in unity in our ever evolving phases. if very self aware & balanced. we create. we tend to be the deepest & realest of people. one extreme to the next means “balancing the deepest full spectrum of everything” we look at things periscopicaly & microscopically simultaneously, for the “full picture”. many of us tend to stay in our balanced realm of daily activities, responsibilities, & day to day life structures. all of which we make an art form , though get sidetracked with creative pursuits that we passionately indulge in. (hence art before dishes) is my motto in my kitchen. we are deeply creative & fear losing our ingenious thoughts, emotions, & ideas, so we must write, compose, paint, create, learn, understand, until we have finished or at least have a good start on something we are doing, usually 10 or more thoughts or ideas, ideas upon ideas at once that we somehow infuse from microscopic understanding to a whole periscopic understanding to somehow infuse & create with. we are into authenticity, wholeness, harmony, fairness & balance. sometimes this means disharmony for harmony. we are creative project people, that’s what makes us natural actors too. we delve deep into every aspect of our psyches & life. we explore everything with great curiosity. we learn through doing & experience. when we finish a creative pursuit of some kind, its not like we forget about it, sometimes we do, or we infuse it into our next works of art, like what we learned about psychology we may infuse in a new philosophy. because we are ever evolving with our art, performance, exploration of life or whatever, thus we understand past, present , future & the inter-connectedness of all things on our own unique subjective levels of understanding & inner & outer journeys in life. i don’t like it when people tell me i’m a good writer. because words are just words, anyone can play with words, i spontaneously express through spirit, intellect, & emotion. so, i rather like it if someone said ” i feel what you are rawly conveying” . yes, for some reason we love left brain & right brain ways of doing everything simultaneously. we love language, we learn language really well. our sense of humor is eccentric and ingenious & we have multiple humor styles, & abstractly infuse our humor to fit or unfit the vibe.sometimes our humor is our defense mechanism against someone’s defense mechanism. sometimes we are absurd to the absurd. weird cloths, well, that’s a given, that goes along with our flow & expression of what ever we are infusing creatively or feeling. such as, when i feel off, i wear my cloths inside out. i don’t mind being different, i have had to accept that i am different. some people thought/think i may be bi- polar, that is uncomfortable that people have thought that. sure i have had pms & ptsd due to life stress, but, i’m hsp, infp for sure. as for avoiding conflict & anger, i shut down if its a man, because i have issues with angry men. however, i do not avoid contrast of thinking, feeling, & living, i try to understand or agree to disagree peacefully. i think about my ideas before sharing, & i also think about ideas while abstractly musing about ideas. on the art of effort, if its creative, then i’ll make a creative effort. that’s all there is to it. if its not creative then i make it creative. i’m more fluid & balanced than this description, it sounds like he is talking about a 100% extreme infp. infp’s are really fluid people. we flow with life, though benefit from some structure greatly on our own terms. i tend to live with my natural cycles, nature’s cycles & seasons, a breathing in & out of life. flowing through my energy within & the energy of nature. living in “deep” harmony seems chaotic to others. like why is my house a mess, when its usually immaculate? because, my energy is naturally flowing elsewhere right now. why is my balance of days & weeks of structured activities & responsibilities off, why tf am i so behind on my to do list & plans. what day is it? f. oops i was learning about astro- earth biology & prehistoric cats, then got a fantastic idea for a painting that delves into my spirit, intellect, emotional realm, & physicality about my past lives and reincarnation & the systemic nature of my whole existence in this life time through my deep spiritual creative self. giggles! many of us develop fantastic balancing skills. at least this is my infp way. some of us have to, learn to balance our spiritual, intellectual, emotional, creativity & passionate projects or what ever we are exploring, researching, learning, creating, experiencing, doing whatever with daily activities, responsibilities, practicalities, plans, & balanced structured living. otherwise we would be in our studios creating stuff until we starve to death or on some fantastical adventure in a distant land & the dishes would never get done.
difficult lessons for INFP’s to learn.
1. to realize that we are different, & to know that we don’t need to try to fit in to an extroverted world & into a society that does not honor us. we don’t need substances to overcome shyness or our reserved nature, or to be un-inhibited like extroverts. when we are tipsy from substances we become like esfp’s.
2.no matter how authentic we are at or core, we should never compromise our authenticity merely for an experience, experiment, or for different interactions. we are natural actors or mimes, so we should tone it down.
3.we must learn to overcome our natural naivete which causes us to be dis-empowered in a world where one must be discerning. we must always listen to our intuition, which, if we are naive, we don’t always do. we are naturally innocent, so we have to learn how to heal, empower, & integrate what we learn through life experiences. we must learn to protect our deeply pure spirits in healthy ways.
4. we must learn healthy life coping skills, communication techniques, & ways of adapting, because lets face it, we live in an extroverted world filled with people nothing like us.
5. we must honor our sensitivity, because not a lot of people do. we live in an in-sensitive world.
6.though we may have healthy self esteem, we can lack self-compassion. we have high expectations of ourselves, thus this is our greatest downfall.
harmonic resonance in self is an undulating process, a breathing in & out, continuously balancing oneself on all levels. i’m neither in a good or bad space, more or less a neutral space, that is the wisdom i have learned, instead of always trying to be in a “good balanced” space. the greatest & most freeing lesson. my expectations of myself were always too high, thus i would always try to be in a “good balanced” state, when in fact what i have needed was to aim for being in a “neutral balanced state”. a wise woman taught me that. thus ever since learning that i have been trying to practice that mindset, which has been difficult for me, but i am learning to flow with it. i no longer check my self- compassion at the door. i’m learning how to have plenty of self-compassion which i have lacked all of my life. i have always had self esteem, but not self-compassion.
art before dishes, why? i don’t know we are perfectly abstract.
*INFP humor* when you were younger, stuffed animals were your best friends, when you’re an adult, real animals are your best friends.
i think its important to understand the myer briggs personality types. i love learning about all of the different & unique personality types. for if we knew more about psychology & the inter-workings of people’s personalities, perhaps there would be more harmony & understanding in humanity.
female infps are different than male infps.
i’ve posted a lot about infp type personalities on my page here, but here are some of my random personal infp idiosyncrasies:
i’m quiet & reserved. i spend a lot of time in solitude. i’m like a cat. i have light -hearted conversations with people here and there, talk on the phone once or four times a month, prefer my communications & deeper conversations face to face or through writing. i’m quiet though around closer friends that i vibe with, i can be quite lively. i’m hsp, infp/j, introverted ambivert. i’m the quietest person & the loudest painter, writer, dancer, or performer. i don’t say much, but on a subject of my interest, i can have a field day. i scan my environment like a cat & never miss a detail. i’m highly observant. i take my time with things & thorough with my healing, evolving, learning, & creating. i have great concentration skills. i’m usually learning, creating, or experiencing many things at once. i move from one project to the next, usually working on several projects at once. my life has to be living art. i ground my dreams. i’m an idea person. sometimes i have too many ideas. i’m inventive. i’ll invent the perfect guy from my imagination & sing a song to him. i’m hesitant about sharing my more profound works of art, writing, & poetry. i’m not sure how i feel about publications, maybe when i’m older. i’m deeply private & an open book & need a lot of space. i infuse creativity in everything i do. i’m addicted to learning, experiencing, & creating. i would make a great actress. i have always loved theater, arts, music, dancing & anything creative & expressive.
the difference between a naive, dis-empowered hsp~infp & that of a wise, empowered hsp~infp is that the more naive we are, the more abstract we are. the more vulnerable we are, the more lost we are, the more anxiety we feel, the more experiments gone wrong we go through, the more learning only through experience we go through, the more trial & error we go through, from being pure, naive, wild & taken advantage of by psychopaths, the more we learn things from all angles, the more exploring we do, inside & out, for infps, we are self explorers of ourselves on all levels internally & externally in the world. we are self healers, authentic seekers of ourselves & the world, equalizers & harmonizers.
we feel misunderstood. we are eccentric & it takes some of us awhile to understand that we are different & how much so. yet we learn how to be in a mainly extroverted fast paced world. it takes us longer to heal, empower, integrate, balance, & qi-ify our existence because we are deep. it takes us awhile to find our path, narrow down what validates our existence, what truly resonates with the deepest part of ourselves. it takes us awhile to feel what lifestyle & way of living resonates best. we do an awful lot of exploring until we understand what does & doesn’t. initially we are late bloomers, yet when we bloom in consistency its magnificent & deep. we are 50% old soul & 50% child. we usually have more inner peace later in life.
being apart of the 4% of the population that is infp, 15% of the population that is hsp & 9% of the population that is rh- , makes it easy to find harmony within, yet difficult to find harmony in an extroverted fast paced world that most certainly does not portray infp/hsp/rh- energy.
~!~ my thoughts about love, i won’t settle for less than a fairy tale, if that means i may be alone forever, just as well. i don’t believe in happily ever after,i believe in harmonious endings. i believe in divine love affair/s. what is a divine love affair? long lasting relationship of full love, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically & deep intimacy. a conscious man & woman are capable of deep intimacy. love that creates together, grows together, gets wilder together, gets freeer together. divine love may last for awhile, long time, or forever, depending on how long the fullness of love is expressed. ~!~
a woman has to kiss quite a few frogs before she knows a prince when she sees one, before she knows what she truly wants. she has to be whole in herself to share whole mutual love, with a whole man.
Kahlil Gibran said ” do not take a half lover”. what he meant is, do not share with someone unless the connection is divine, full, & intimate on all levels. everything else is false.
my dream guy: looks like Colin with an Irish accent, heart of Kahlil Gibran~!~